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Play it Again, Damn…

Two headphone cycles while mowing my weeds is cementing “Parallel Play” as my favorite Sloan record yet. As the most democratic quad-core in rock, this Canadian band splits songwriting and vocals almost equally between Chris Murphy (bass) Patrick Pentland (lead guitar), Jay Ferguson (rhythm guitar), and Andrew Scott (drums). Live, they also swap roles when Scott grabs a guitar and Murphy just makes a mess behind the kit. Honestly, that used to be my “whatever” part of a show, but Scott’s songs on Parallel Play (Emergency 911, Down in the Basement) are so strong I’m getting over it.

Even muffled by the um, muffler of a lawnmower, my (product placement warning) Etymotic Research ER6i Isolator In-Ear Earphones deliver sound and syntax smoothly.

There’s irony to one particular song for me. For Chris Murphy, the song laments 40 on his horizon. I’m a more than a decade further down that bridge we build as we walk. At the live shows I usually scan the crowd for some dude older than me. I always find someone, usually some toasted hippie, but if I keep going, some night my search may be in vain. Actually, the crowd scan is pretty pointless anyway, but I’ll do it again Monday night when Sloan rocks Chicago’s historic Double Door.

“I relied heavily on Styx and Stones
Not so much Styx once I heard The Ramones”

Sloan – “I’m Not a Kid Anymore”

Crushed

Whew… It’s been a rush of life the past few days and coffee jolts the drag of sleep deprivation. With no Celtics or Sloan tonight, there’ll be an early ascent of the bedroom stairs for an accelerated descent to REM. 24 hours ago I shared a pre-Sloan table at Greek Corner in Cambridge with my pal Jeff, and our “dates,” Megan and Mallory. On the drive in I mentioned Sloan’s Monday night show in Chicago, to which Megan inquired, “what if they suck tonight?” I calmly explained, “Sloan doesn’t suck. Ever.” As soon as she agreed, I let my girl back in the car and we continued on our way.

Fifteen minutes from the 10:45 show time, Megan announced she didn’t have her ID for the 18+ show. After some tense moments, I handed her $40 and put her and Mal-pal in a cab to go get her ID in the car parked, yeah, fifteen minutes away. Jeff and I went into the club where I proceeded to buy us a drink, hand $20 to the bartender and walk away. No change. Idiot. The worrying father then sent a text to daughter instructing her to make sure she had the cabbie wait while she got her license. She quickly thumbed me back:

“Dad, you have my car key.”

I took a long swig of my Ketel and Red Bull as Jeff laughed at the farce.

Tick-tock, tick-tock… We were now at 11:00 and both the band and the girls were still missing… Well, actually the musicians were walking relatively anonymously through the venue. Finally they began shuffling on stage and around 11:05 launched into “I’m Not a Kid Anymore,” about fifteen seconds after Megan and Mallory somehow got into the club.

It wasn’t the best Sloan show I’ve ever seen, but the new material was great and I heard an old song for the first time that was killer, even with some fan they pulled from the audience singing it…

Happy 8th month Birthday, Maddy. Papi’s going to bed.

Four of a Kind

The Yankees.
The Habs.
The (I guess) J-E-T-S.

They’re the teams we Bostonians love to hate, and last night the locals put a spanking on the fourth of a kind, the Los Angeles Lakers. Yeah, Jacks team. I hope Jack can handle the truth (the Lakers couldn’t), because his 2007-2008 edition is painted perfectly this morning by Salon.com’s King Kaufman:

“The Lakers looked like a glass-jawed opponent brought in to fight the champ in a tune-up bout. Ever seen that? The guy looks nice and professional for a little while, right up until the first solid blow lands. Then he gets taken apart.”

Rating the Boston Championships…

…that I can remember…

  1. 2004 Red Sox – Duh
  2. 2007 Pat… – Oh, they lost one, didn’t they?
  3. 1969-70 Bruins – The Big Bad Bruins were IT in the early 70’s. Bobby Orr flies in OT…
  4. 2007 Red Sox – Not nearly as much fun without the Yanks in our wake.
  5. 1983-4 Celtics – Larry v. Magic in 7 beauts.
  6. 2007-8 Celtics – “D” wins championships and so sweet after 22 years. Paul Pierce is the man.
  7. 1968-9 Celtics – Game 7 at LA… I think the purple and gold balloons are still in the Forum rafters.
  8. 2001 Patriots – Exciting win, but in hindsight a little less lofty.

There were many others; most of them in green, but we are so fortunate here…

Predictions…

I love the pompous, hot-air driven “Predictions” on the McLaughlin Report. Here are a few:

When you’re this late, don’t bother coming at all: Al Gore endorsed Barack Obama… last night.

These days I’m up to my ass in routine…

…but that routine will be interrupted Wednesday night when Sloan brings their sonic circus to town. I’ll have Megan in tow for her second Sloan show along with her friend to be named later. Of course we’ll meet up with Jeff who’s pretty fired up himself.

Green Wagon

I’m a bad Celtics fan, having jumped on the bandwagon sometime during the Cleveland series, but the heart displayed by this Celtics team is impressive. Former Celtic great and sometime color man Bob Cousy often says during games, “the C’s have got to increase their defensive intensity.” Defense is all about heart and the display of it by this team and its leader, Paul Pierce, is admirable. If the Lakers have any hope to get back in this Series starting tonight, it’ll be on the defensive end of the floor where they’ll do it. Personally, I don’t think they have the heart.

Village of Father’s

In today’s Salon, “Marc Lynott,” the pseudonym of a New York writer enters text titled, “My two dads,” a story of conflict between genetic and practical paternity on Father’s Day. It opens, “Every Father’s Day, I’m torn between the man who brought me into this world and the man who truly raised me.” I never had such a conflict. In the 38 years since my parents divorce, I recall my mom having a couple dates, and the concept of a step-father had never entered my mind until constructing this thought.

Dad and I spoke this morning and I look forward to his visit late this month. We have a good relationship and I’m glad for it. It wasn’t always that way and I created much of the canyon that separated us.

In 1996, Hillary Rodham Clinton wrote, “It Takes a Village,” illustrating the impact of non-parents on a child’s well being. Growing up in my village of Wakefield, there were a few father figures that made a huge difference in my life…

  • Tony G. – My best friend’s dad completely took me under his wing and made me feel like a real member of his five son house. The influence of Mrs. G was just as strong, and man, what a cook, but hey, it’s Father’s Day…
  • Zack B. – Father of another high-school friend, this guy was like a dad to hundreds of Wakefield kids who participated in his Youth Basketball program.
  • Les D. – My childhood dream was to become a baseball player and from Little League to his Wakefield Merchants team, this man encouraged me to believe in it.
  • Fran R. – My high-school sweetheart’s dad. Verbosity wasn’t his thing, but his ever presence in that home was an enduring example of what a father should be.

The collective impact of these fathers in my life is immeasurable. I have no way of knowing what path I would have followed out of the village without their guidance, but it probably would have been rockier than the one I walked, and ultimately, I think my children have benefited from their example.

Dad, guys… Thank you and Happy Father’s Day.

Freaky Friday

Yesterday was a strange day. I was working on a post that began, “I’m no Freddy Krueger, but I still like the 13th falling on a Friday.” Also in production was a post on criticism of my favorite political pundit, Keith Olberman, who’s been placed atop a low flame Bunsen Burner for blatant pro-Obama partisanship and general self-righteousness. Um, wait… Uh, nevermind. I’m not that, right? One commenter nailed him to the hypocritical cross writing, “Olbermann is nothing more but the left liberal version of Bill O’Reilly.” As ET might say, “Ouch.”

My advanced hunt and peck was interrupted by some early morning real work, a dentist visit, more work, and then a summer outing of the Marketing department. As I walked into the house after my drilling, I looked around at the greens, blues, and pink of blooming roses and conciously thought, “Everything is so beautiful.” It was almost as good as the surreal view of the world you have when in love. It was that gorgeous of a New England Spring day. The outing festivities at Kimball Farm were fun and relaxing, and I enjoyed the opportunity to chat with people I seldom see from behind my closed door. I skipped their ice cream, but did query a group why the ice cream beer float never caught on…

Once I picked up the boy Kyle and got home, I learned Tim Russert of NBC had died. On MSNBC, Mr. Olberman led an incredible media outpouring appropriate perhaps for Mother Theresa, but a bit excessive for a TV talking head. All the cable networks including CNN and even Faux News jumped on the eulogy marathon that’s still going…

I didn’t really care for Mr. Russert’s prosecutorial “gotcha” style, and called it out after watching his unjust joust with Hillary Clinton in January. Sure, that’s just one critical example from a generally distinguished career, but the full-court press reaction to Mr. Russert’s passing is more about their self-importance than about Tim Russert. Last night I heard how tragic it was that Tim Russert would miss the rest of this year’s historic presidential election and “how will we possibly cover it without Tim?” To those observations I thought it’s surely less tragic than for those African-Americans who died yesterday before they could vote for a black American president, and yeah, the election will get covered without Tim.

I guess my point in all this is that their “self-importance” has been earned, and the media more than ever delivers “news” only slanted with opinion and they have more power than ever to do it. There’s an electoral cliché that originated with Maine, moved to Missouri, and in recent years probably resided in Florida. It’s about the importance of carrying those states in order to win in November. In 2008, it’s shifted again, this time with the power residing in our media outlets. With Fox the propaganda machine of the Right and MSNBC their nemesis on the Left, as CNN goes, so goes the nation.

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