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It’s “Black Friday” and the faithful and non are out in droves throwing down on the biggest shopping day before Christmas… Oops… Can I write “Christmas” without offending someone? Sorry. And if I simply refer to the phenomena as “holiday shopping,” won’t I offend the right-wing defenders like Hannity and O’Rielly who insist there’s a dark “War on Christmas” that must be vigorously fought against? Um, sorry. How about I go with “the excessive orgy of consumerism occurring between Thanksgiving Day and December 25th?” That will probably offend people who really appreciate a good orgy, but isn’t that what many have become? A group of sects scanning the landscape for those who offend us?

An NPR headline today reads, “Sectarian Violence in Baghdad Kills at Least 130.” One definition of Sectarian is “Adhering or confined to the dogmatic limits of a sect or denomination; partisan.” Hmmm… That sounds like how some wish to suppress stem-cell research or gay marriage: Dogma.

The plot of Dogma is silly, but it allows for interesting socio-religious commentary in the conversations of its characters. In one exchange, Rufus, the 13th apostle played by Chris Rock explains his frustration at what man did to the good ideas of his “brotha:”

Rufus: He still digs humanity, but it bothers Him to see the shit that gets carried out in His name – wars, bigotry, but especially the factioning of all the religions. He said humanity took a good idea and, like always, built a belief structure on it.
Bethany (Linda Fiorentino): Having beliefs isn’t good?
Rufus: I think it’s better to have ideas. You can change an idea. Changing a belief is trickier. Life should malleable and progressive; working from idea to idea permits that. Beliefs anchor you to certain points and limit growth; new ideas can’t generate. Life becomes stagnant.

In case you missed it, here’s much of Dogma set to Bad Religion’s American Jesus:

This post began after reading “A Free-for-All on Science and Religion” in the New York Times Online. The article discussed a recent conference, “Beyond Belief: Science, Religion, Reason and Survival,” that took up where Rufus left off in the ideas versus beliefs debate. The NY Times George Johnson wrote the gathering “rapidly escalated into an invigorating intellectual free-for-all.” It did bash the concept of religion quite thoroughly, but some in attendance were pragmatic about it. Francisco J. Ayala is a former Roman Catholic priest, and currently a evolutionary biologist at UC, Irvine. He acknowledged, “People need to find meaning and purpose in life,” he said. “I don’t think we want to take that away from them.”

I agree. Many wonderful people I know believe in God. Some of them have a personal relationship with the big guy and absolutely “know” He exists. What bothers me is when the position is intolerant of others because they are “right” and anyone not in line is “wrong.” That’s no different than “death to the infidels,” an extreme position of some Muslim sects. I do believe the world would be better off without the intolerance often born of the sectarianism of belief, but religion is not going away any time soon.

“lronically, the thing people are most hungry for; meaning, is the one thing science hasn’t been able to give them.” – Palmer Joss in the Carl Sagan novel, Contact.

Happy Orgy of Consumerism.

Kyle’s mom called tonight actually insisting she speak with the poor boy to tell him Celine Dion was going to be on “Deal Or No Deal.” Yikes! With Howie Mandel doing his best imitation of “Mr. Clean,” this waste of an hour has me really worried about my country when this crap is a hit show, and more importantly, what my son is subjected to when he’s with his mom. The only good thing I can say about it is that the Canadian diva wasn’t on…

OK, let’s get positive… I’m thinking of getting my mom “I Shouldn’t Even Be Doing This!: And Other Things That Strike Me as Funny,” an autobiography by Bob Newhart. The books first chapter opens with Mr. Newhart stating that comedians see life through a different lens. My first recollections of Mr. Newhart are from his appearances on The Tonight Show with Johnny Carson. I appreciated his dry wit and believe it had a lasting influence… He had two sitcoms on CBS in the late 70’s (Bob Newhart Show) and early 80’s (Newhart). I wasn’t a big TV watcher at the time, but knew enough about the first to really appreciate the ending of the second. On “The Bob Newhart Show,” he played a Chicago psychologist opposite Suzanne Pleshette as his wife, Emily. Many of their discussions took place in their bedroom which became a very familiar set to fans. In “Newhart,” a show I never saw, he played an innkeeper in Vermont. The second series ended with a brilliant and surreal nod to the first and may be the best ending to a sitcom in the history of television. I had never seen it, but ever since hearing about it over 20 years ago, I always wanted to. Now, through the magic of YouTube, I did and you can too.

I sit here at the virtual Thanksgiving table thankful about…

…hearing the sound of Kyle breathing while sleeping on the couch. About 45 minutes ago, he stumbled by from his bedroom to the couch. I gave him a pillow and wrapped him in a blanket. He said, “Happy Thanksgiving, Daddy.” A few minutes later he added, “I miss Megan.”

…Jessica’s recovery.

…being able to read and write.

…having a new boss who is one of the coolest and smartest people I’ve ever met.

…the richness of life that has nothing to do with money.

…a friend in Barb.

…artists of every medium.

…Kronos.

…finally emerging from my turtle-like shell to reach out and develop relationships.

…having enjoyed all those “Seinfeld” episodes before knowing Michael Richards is a bigot.

…good health.

…knowing someday she will come home.

She’s Carrie in my dream. She’s the smart, creative and beautiful one. She lives in Manhattan and owns it. Yeah, she has the friends… and the shoes. She writes and makes a good living at it. She is happy.

Dreams don’t always come true, but while they still can they remain dreams. I think she’s Carrie in her dreams too, but she’ll find her own way to whatever her dreams are.

While Nancy Pelosi’s push for enactment of the Honest Leadership and Open Government Act of 2006 is a promising start, others in her party aren’t even in their leadership chairs yet, but their comments hint at business as usual cronyism.

Dinosaur John Dingell (D-Michigan), a US congressman since 1955 is about to take over the chairmanship of the House Energy and Commerce Committee, occupying the seat currently held by Texas Republican Rep. Joe Barton. Mr. Barton, a Big Oil flak spent time this year investigating an oil company. Oh, but it wasn’t a probe into how ExxonMobil took advantage of rising crude prices to pocket $36B in profits. No, the good rep from Texas wanted to know if Citgo broke any laws with their program to provide discounted heating oil to low-income US communities.

It now appears Mr. Dingell will move away from cohorting with Big Oil, but slide over to the next street corner to prop up the drunken Big 3 US automakers. Yep, fellow Jurrasic period inhabitants Ford, GM and Chrysler all live in Dingellville and produce some of the the least fuel efficient cars in the world.

While some Democrats advocate a doubling of fuel-efficiency standards for the US auto market to reduce both greenhouse gases and dependency on foreign oil, Mr. Dingle isn’t so sure. In an interview with CNBC, he responded, “I’m not sure that there’s any urgent needs for us to address those questions.” He noted that any rule changes should weigh “the needs, the costs, the technological ability and the economic ability of industry and the market to absorb these changes.”

Fair enough, but voters in the 2006 election proved they’ll act to make changes with policymakers not exercising their will. Inaction on this issue combined with inevitably higher gasoline prices could make the Dinglesaurus in danger of extinction by 2008.

“I usually stuff the squid-head with breadcrumbs and put it right on the grill. It’s my own recipe.” Somehow our waiter at the Times Square Olive Garden thought we’d be interested in knowing that as he placed the calamari on our third floor table overlooking Broadway. That was the second grossest thing during dinner, just edged out by a hair in Jessica’s Shrimp Scampi. We were in too much of a hurry to make a stink about it, but the Olive Gardeners threw us a $20 gift certificate for our hairy situation.

Nine hours earlier a yellow taxi dropped us in the historic Chelsea meatpacking district. We were there to visit the Ground Zero Museum Workshop and we had about an hour before our scheduled appointment. Nature had granted us a beautiful and unseasonably fair day, so we just started walking. We’d only strolled about a block and a half when I saw an interesting and artsy doorway that was very active opening and closing for people of all shapes and sizes. We had no idea, but as their website describes, we’d “stumbled upon the heart of Chelsea, a one stop culinary food shop, a gourmet lover’s wholesale-retail wonder world, and an energetic, industrial-chic hotspot…” We’d entered the Chelsea Market. It’s a winding corridor of history, art, charm and shops lit by local art students sitting and sketching every few yards like candles lighting the way between florists, restaurants, bakeries and wine merchants. Practically perfect in every way…

The museum was in a small second-floor loft, and very well done. It contained WTC artifacts collected (not personal belongings) and poignant photographs taken by Gary Suson. One piece was the most chilling for me. It was AA11 aluminum fuselage melted into a warped Dali-like mutation. One photograph portrays a firefighter holding a book with his finger marking a passage. My mother told me not to miss it on the audio tour so I figured it was some biblical thing. In fact, the book was one in the Harry Potter series that his son, also a firefighter, had read to his two young children on the evening of September 10th, 2001. The son never got to read any more…

We walked quietly for a long time after visiting the museum, none of us speaking much. About an hour later, after walking a sun-drenched few miles along the Hudson River, Kyle and I were looking into the pit where the dust of the dead still rustles in the fall breeze. We grabbed a cab and got out of there.

The curtain rose at about 8:04 with chimney-sweep Bert alone on the stage. Two hours and forty minutes later Mary Poppins slowly glided off the stage and disappeared into the balcony above us. It was the last night of Kyle’s 14th year and it was one he’ll always remember. I’ll remember it too, but I’ll remember to read him Harry Potter even more.

Thoughts on this weeks election…

Winners

• Don Rumsfeld – At least he gets out of the Iraq mess alive.
• George Bush – Now he can blame the Democrats who control Congress.
• Kerry Healey – She bowed out of the MA Governor’s race with dignity and a message of bipartisanship.
• Howard Dean – Depicted as crazy because he actually showed human emotion, he architected a grass-roots win for his party in some formerly red, but now purplish states.
• Alternative Energy – Democrats talked about it…a lot. Now let’s see some action.
• President Obama – Oh, sorry. I’m getting ahead of myself…

Losers

• Dick Cheney – If there’s anyone the Democrats are coming after, it’s you.
• John Kerry – Please go away and don’t screw up 2008.
• Ken Mehlman – The GOP national chairman um, sucked. Fortunately he has a plan B. Isn’t he the guy in the AccountTemps radio spots?
• Successful dirty, smearing politics – Unfortunately this one isn’t dead.
• Warrantless Wiretaps – The beginning of the end of the erosion of our civil liberties.

Sparks flew last night at dinner… Flavor sparks. Broiled Shrimp and Twin Lobster tails, Prime Sirloin Steak… It was a wonderful meal. We walked it off over 15 blocks then skied 1250 feet up to the 102nd floor of the Empire State Building. More great shots of what we gazed at are here.

Walking along, Jessica said, “Dad, you could have a few girlfriends here.” We walked and the eye candy passed. I wondered how real any of them were.

I’ve got nothing for you today, people… or person… Whatever. Desire to be creative is lacking lately, so here’s some stuff I found while sorting socks.

I think thinking is a good use of ones time. I believe external stimulus can help the process simply by altering perception, even slightly. Classes, art, music, the beauty in nature, wine… Whatever it takes, just think. Here are some tips to help you think like a genius.

Speaking of geniuses, Red Auerbach was a no-show last week at the Celtics home opener. He had a good excuse as he had died. After 56 opening nights, the thought of Celtic cheerleaders must have been too much and Red bowed out. I never actually saw a Red coached Celtic team, but this from his last team sure got me interested. I did own this record… Hopefully I still have it.

Dick Cheney is not a genius, but he is compared to Dubya. Today in an interview with ABC, the Vice President of the United States said regarding Iraq, “It may not be popular with the public. It doesn’t matter, in the sense that we have to continue what we think is right. That’s exactly what we’re doing. We’re not running for office. We’re doing what we think is right.” On Tuesday the voters will respond and let Mr. Cheney know it does matter. Say goodnight, Dick.

Let’s lighten things up with a few videos by my current favorite band, the Drive By Truckers:

• At The Metro in Chicago IL
• “Never Gonna Change”
• Making of “A Blessing and a Curse”
• NPR interview and a whole show from the 9:30 Club in Washington DC

Finally, I do believe the Patriots will drill Peyton Manning with regularity into the new turf tonight at Foxborough and thrash the Dolts, but I could be wrong…

“Where we have strong emotions, we’re liable to fool ourselves.” – Carl Sagan

Thanks for the reality check, Carl. I just hope I can stay awake for it.

I read my posts. After working in the yard for a while, I just came in to make lunch for Mr. Kyle Daley. After negotiating pizza with the lad, I turned on the oven to pre-heat 450, then I sat to read some stuff on bloglines. While reading my post of this morning, I thought about that dude in Glendale. Besides the karma thing, we also had some deep discussions on metaphysics and the power of the mind. Now I haven’t yet moved an object with my mind, but sometimes it does scare me alive. After a few minutes, the boy asked if the pizza was cooking. “I’m waiting for the oven to heat up, my boy.” A few more minutes passed and I looked up at Kyle. It was no problem reading his mind at that moment, then I said, with deliberate pacing, “I… think… it’s… going… to… be… ready… right… now!” At that very moment between the “now” and the silence, the oven beeper went off telling us that 450 had arrived.

Coincidence or Serling-worthy?