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My brother and his family were up from Philly this weekend for a little family get-together. We had a great weekend and my kids really enjoyed their little cousin Margeaux. At one point during the weekend, my sister-in-law Noreen mentioned an article in the UK’s Guardian Online. I hadn’t read it lately, so I looked at my Bloglines RSS feeds and found this article citing how a poll of how 77% of some 2,000 British women “wanted to receive a handwritten love letter rather than a love text or email…” Incredibly, nearly 20% of these women have never received a love letter, and 44% responded that it had been over ten years since they last received one. I find that incredibly sad, but come to think of it, I haven’t written one in a while, handwritten or otherwise, and ten years passes quickly, like a mid-August rainshower.

If the time ever arrives, I’ll remember to say it the old fashioned way. Until then, the Guardian will keep me thinking about football.

Gotta love this pic of Dave in the funky-guy hat. He is one lucky dude as Graham Parker has asked the big guy to take a crack at writing the liner notes for an upcoming live record being released on Bloodshot Records. This has to be such a rock n’ roll fantasy for Dave. He’s been a long-time fan of GP and did this kick ass interview with him in June. Yep, it’s Dave’s passion that got him this gig and as he knows… Passion is no Ordinary Word.

I’ve been unable to determine the source of this excellent advice. Spanish proverb? New England proverb? I certainly have invoked it the past couple of days. I’ve been in all-day meetings with groups exploring and validating the business needs of our prospects and customers in Healthcare and Manufacturing. Of course, I know virtually nothing of those “Critical Business Issues,” but I’m very fortunate to work in a company with many very bright people, and several of these “experts” are participating in the workshops.

Unfortunately, not everyone adheres to the counsel above. Yesterday during a break I asked one of the workshop facilitators if their new book was available as an audio download. Out of nowhere, a woman I hardly knew chirped, “What’s wrong, can’t you read? Did you take the short bus?” I just turned my head and looked at her. I didn’t say anything, but maybe I didn’t have to. Now I’ve got no problem reading and I can write better than some, but let’s just say I’m a little sensitive than most to a comment like that.

Words can be so powerful. They can lift up or tear down. You just never know when one word may be the very thing someone needs to hear; or the last thing they want to hear. Words are also interpreted. You may imply one thing, but your recipient may infer something completely different. The more you know the receiver, the more you’ll understand their boundaries of appropriateness. I know if that woman knew me at all, she would have known better than to break the rule above yesterday.

Some 10,000 ran, walked and wheeled the Falmouth Road Race yesterday, but I was not one of them, in spite of the goal I set for myself 135 days ago.

I’ve let myself slide the last six weeks or so. Physically, anyway. I haven’t been to the gym and in spite of the increased amount of yard work, I haven’t replaced the calorie burn or the endorphin producing rush I enjoyed there.

I do have a reorganization plan, but I think I’ll keep it to myself because setting a goal in a public forum and then miserably failing to even come close to it kinda sucks.

Today was one of the best days I’ve ever experienced. Exactly one month from September 11th, the weather was glorious with a hint of my favorite season just ahead. I launched a new sales program that was received with great enthusiasm. I spent some time working with Barb and her boss on some important stuff for next week. I picked up Kyle and we had dinner at Megan’s Deangelos shop before going for a long walk and an ice cream. The recently skidding Sox are up 8-0. Kyle is watching “Harry Potter – The Chamber of Secrets” on TV and very content. I am tapping keys and thinking about where to take this.

It hasn’t been such a great day for everyone. Megan went to the wake of her 17 year old classmate who died during surgery to repair an imperfect heart. Megan said her friends 19 year old brother was a mess and that another brother couldn’t be home for the wake. He’s in Iraq.

Fifty year ago this very night, on August 11, 1956, a drunken Jackson Pollock drove his Oldsmobile convertible into a tree, killing himself and a female friend who wasn’t his wife. That couldn’t have been a very good day.

It was around this time exactly five years ago I drove out to Williamstown, MA to see an Impressionist show at the Clark Art Institute. It’s time for another trip. There’s a Pollock show at the Williams College Museum of Art and an interesting looking exhibit of Impressionism and Early Modern Paintings at the Clark.

That’ll be a good day.

I can’t believe pal Jeff didn’t jump on this report about how AOL let out 21 million search queries of more than 650,000 of its users. The article cites a few of the more bizarre personal search histories exposed and proves without a doubt: there are some shiny scary people out there.

So…what’s your search history look like? Would you want your family and friends to know how much of a freak you are? Would you want them to know about your obsessive David Hasselhoff or Olsen Twins searches? No, I didn’t think so.

How about old flames or spouses? Searched them? I’ll admit. I have. Never found much. What I have not searched are things like “free angry stuff to send to an ex lover,” like some loser in the AOL data did.

Anyway, a look at my recent history turns up these exciting searches:

• Dell PowerEdge 1800
• Honda Civic v. Toyota Corolla
• Lexus ES350
• SQL Server 2000 datasheet
• Idylwilde Farm
• Pink Floyd Pig
• rolling stones halifax tickets
• Mary Poppins Broadway
• Decordova museum
• Sean Patrick’s
• Griffin RoadTrip nextag
• ExxonMobil profits
• Powell Stone & Gravel
• XML Integration

What I also find interesting are the search terms that return my blog as a result. Here are the current top searches that bring people here:

• I wish that I’d sailed the darkened seas
• Caiaphas the Elder
• Human Destiny by Lecomte du Nouy review comments
• Trombone Player Wanted Marcus Buckingham
• curb your enthusiasm cheryl and larry’s vows
• fidelity 401k lava lamp
• hank III overrated
• marrying your soulmate
• rock star penis molds
• rockstar penis cast
• rockstar penis molds
• ryan adams wonderwall
• wakefield merchants baseball

Clearly, the penis mold is a big draw and more scary evidence about who’s out there. Ever wonder who might be “Googling” you?

Yesterday was a bit of a trip down Memory Lane. To start, Kyle and I visited the DeCordova Museum and Sculpture Park in Lincoln, MA. We immediately hit the StairMaster, climbing through five floors of contemporary works, including Joe Johnson’s vivid color photographs of NYC apartments, Anna Hepler’s two and three dimension geometric designs, and Jen Simms’ fascinating Slices of Life.

It was also a gorgeous day for a stroll around the sculpture park or just to lay in the grass thinking… Also, it’s just not every day you get to see a giant pink pig. In fact, the last time I saw one was in 1977 at a Pink Floyd concert at Boston Garden. Well, I think I recall seeing a giant pink pig…

Driving with Kyle included a constant “audio deathmatch” for control of the airwaves. Yesterday’s battle was between the Scud Mountain Boys and a reading of “Peter Pan” Kyle has on cassette. I pulled a few strings (and rank) so Joe Pernice and the boys prevailed, but only after negotiating air rights away to JM Barrie’s retelling for the ride home. I did notice Kyle’s head kind of bobbing along to the music, but I zipped my lip for fear of reigniting the battle for Captain Hook’s honor.

We exited Route 2 West after the enticing sign for the delicious Idylwilde Farms in Acton. We sampled a few things and marveled at the selection of produce, cheeses and breads, and then got back on the road for a leisurely drive through the rural route of 111. I’d traveled that road many times in years past, having worked for NEC in various corporate incarnations at their building in Boxborough. As we turned in I saw the new commercial identity of Cisco Systems. The duck pond is still there, but given the vacancy I witnessed, I don’t think Cisco has the same affinity for decorative fowl that the Japanese tenants had. The rear parking lot is larger, but faded from years of sun and invaded by green upshoots seeking it. The main pathway from the parking lot to the old employee entrance is now a little narrower, giving ground to the now mature shrubs surrounding the pond. Kyle remembered the place and said, “You used to take me here, Dad.” Yep, but that was a long time ago. Everything sure looks older when looked at directly, and not in the distorted rear view.

I looked for the softball field. The last time I played anything organized with a bat and a ball was there. It remains, along with a beach volleyball court and a sign that warns employees of Cisco’s “intent not to award Worker’s Compensation for injuries sustained participating in non-work related activities.”

Back on 111, then off, we slowly made our way through the winding back roads of Harvard, MA and back to 111 again until we could see that last lone farmhouse on the right just before Route 2. I recall there were usually horses there and lights of the season always would warm a cold passerby on dark afternoon commutes.

When I came out of my lazy summer daydream, I heard the voices of Peter Pan and Kyle as Captain Hook. The road ahead was bright.

Kyle twisted my arm last night to take him to his favorite restaurant, Sean Patrick’s. My son is a bit of a celebrity there as he gets lots of attention from both the Maitre D’ (Sean’s dad) and the cute little blonde hostess. He chats them up about Jaws, Harry Potter and Julie Andrews… his favorite things, while enjoying their Crispy Shrimp appetizer and the Chicken Francese. For me, last night it was a Tenderloin and Roasted Red Pepper Gourmet Pizza. I could eat only ½ of the small pie, maybe because I chased it with 2 specialty margaritas. “Dulcinea’s Dream” was a perfect toast to a gorgeous summer day. I keyed the ingredients into my Treo and will attempt a home-brew when the opportunity arises:

Dulcinea’s Dream
Cabo Wabo Reposado Tequila
Malibu Coconut Rum
Cointreau
Lime Juice
Pineapple Juice
Sour Mix

After one of his chats with the hostess, this conversation took place:

“Dad, I want to get a girlfriend someday.”
“Yeah, me too man.”
“Do you think I’ll have a girlfriend someday?”
“Of course you will, my boy.”

Someday Kyle will make some lucky woman very happy. After all, as was so true for the Tom Hanks character in “Forrest Gump,” Kyle knows what love is.

1. “Drink ‘n Heil” – Mel Gibson had a little too much truth serum and spewed racist commentary about Jews to a Jewish cop in Malibu. Oops. I find it sickening how FOX is jumping to his defense as if the Road Warrior’s vile diatribe was some conspiracy of the left. If Ted Kennedy had slurred those things after a bender on the Vineyard they would be all over him…
2. When Tour de France, um “winner” Floyd Landis peed in a cup after making up 8 minutes climbing the Alps during the 17th stage, synthetic testosterone showed up. So, unless he produces the fake testicle that produced the fake hormone, he’s going to be stripped of his title.
3. Israel and Hezbollah continue to amplify the brutality on each other. President Bush is “happy with the progress being made.” See item 5 below.
4. In a huge disgrace to this country, the US Senate defeated legislation that would have raised the hourly minimum wage to $7.25 from $5.15 over three years.
5. Ho hum… Fanned by spiking crude-oil prices, ExxonMobil reported a QUARTERLY PROFIT of $10.36B. That’s 10,360,000,000.00, much of it paid for by the poor who can’t get a raise to their minimum wage.
6. It looks like Apple got caught with its hands in the stock options cookie jar and will have to restate earnings going back “years.”

Fortunately the news isn’t all bad…

This blog is not the only place my personal history is being recorded. I’ve been using Quicken since New Years Day 2000 and there are lots of stories in that database… Gasoline for $24.05 on the 3rd of January was my first recorded expense. Since that day, I’ve visited 480 more times and contributed $12,160.72 in revenue to Big Oil. I guess that pales in comparison to other categories, including almost $20,000 on vacations, $30,110 dining and $169,583 in Child Support. Oh, and let’s not forget the associated $6,172 to my friends in the Legal profession. OK, that’s pissing me off. Let’s move on to more fun categories.

Included in the $2344.75 paid to Ticketmaster.com are the following entries which really speak for themselves:

12/17/2001 Meg/Kyle Beauty & the Beast – Broadway
12/31/2001 Bruins-Leafs w/ Jeff
04/23/2002 Lenny Kravitz-Pink @ Tweeter
05/10/2002 John Hiatt @ Cape Cod Melody Tent
04/15/2003 John Hiatt @ Cape Cod Melody Tent
05/11/2003 @NY Yankees v. Angels 5/15/03
05/23/2003 Mom birthday – Cher
09/11/2003 Bruce @ Shea! Megan
09/24/2003 Stomp! Megan
03/28/2004 Prince w/Jeff
02/20/2005 Green Day
02/21/2005 Lion King NY 2/26 Megan/Kyle/Malrou
03/19/2005 Celts-Dallas 3 tix gift Corey/Ryan/Mike

Then there’s the cake spent on dining with various women over the six years. Here are transactions from just 3 restaurants. I want to protect both the innocent and the not, so I’ve swapped real names for clever code names.

11/04/2000 Cafe Amore Dulcinea
03/31/2001 Papa Razzi M1
06/22/2001 Cafe Amore Goldilocks
01/30/2003 Papa Razzi M2
04/10/2003 Crossroads Blondie
08/27/2003 Papa Razzi Blondie
01/23/2004 Crossroads Blondie
04/08/2004 Crossroads Blondie
04/24/2004 Crossroads M2
08/06/2004 Cafe Amore M3
08/21/2004 Cafe Amore M4
09/23/2004 Crossroads Blondie
10/21/2004 Crossroads Goldilocks
12/10/2004 Crossroads Goldilocks
05/01/2005 Papa Razzi Golf Chick

The “M’s” were those I met through online dating services and the others not. It was a bit of a joke, and likely only funny to me, but I kidded Goldilocks that I could identify every penny I ever spent while with her and that the corresponding ROI calculation was really quite simple. By the way, it was $913.89. Not that I was counting, of course.

Finally, there are those little entries that just bring back a tsunami like wave of memory I hope never leaves me…

We were in NYC celebrating Megan’s 16th birthday and had just walked back to the Grand Hyatt after seeing “The Lion King” on Broadway. As we arrived, Kyle announced he was hungry and asked if he could get some pizza. “Dude, we’re in New York City. We can get anything we want.” All tuckered out from a day of shopping, dining and theatre going, Megan and her pal Mallory headed up to bed, while my boy and I ventured onto the darkened streets of the cement jungle in search of a slice of life and another Quicken entry.